Perhaps it would not ordinarily vex me so, but his priorities are so sorely scrambled that he cannot even recognize this. I could extrapolate further, but the importance is this:

A man’s pride should lay between his lover’s thighs, not his own. I can speak from experience that your pleasure is its own reward.

[ A matter of principle. ]

He can take you into his mouth anytime he wants, and he’s decided the amount he wants to do that is none and never.

[... And indignant jealousy. ]