For what it's worth, he was upset at himself after all that happened. Blamed himself for what had happened and stupid for being upset and having a response like he did.
That's what I'm not a fan of, the deprecation when he had all the right in the world to be scared of you. Exposing someone to their deepest fears, something that scarred them far deeper than one could know, is not going to work in getting them over that fear. Despite what some may think of me, I'm well aware of that particular fact.
If nothing else, I request, for his sake that you keep your distance unless it comes from his side. I saw how he reacted after the fact and I don't want to see it again. [While those words could take a threatening tone, they don't. In fact it sounds more... sad, than anything else.]
Nor am I saying the violence was just towards him. I don't hate you, though I can freely admit I do not trust you. But that's not uncommon with me to begin with. But I would rather something like this not happen again, for everyone involved.
[Voice, private as all hell]
For what it's worth, he was upset at himself after all that happened. Blamed himself for what had happened and stupid for being upset and having a response like he did.
That's what I'm not a fan of, the deprecation when he had all the right in the world to be scared of you. Exposing someone to their deepest fears, something that scarred them far deeper than one could know, is not going to work in getting them over that fear. Despite what some may think of me, I'm well aware of that particular fact.
If nothing else, I request, for his sake that you keep your distance unless it comes from his side. I saw how he reacted after the fact and I don't want to see it again. [While those words could take a threatening tone, they don't. In fact it sounds more... sad, than anything else.]
Nor am I saying the violence was just towards him. I don't hate you, though I can freely admit I do not trust you. But that's not uncommon with me to begin with. But I would rather something like this not happen again, for everyone involved.